People are that addicted to their mobile devices and social media, and naturally it spills into the dating world. I see more and more clients for such issues. If what I see on my couch is any indication of what’s going on in the population at-large, then we’re in for a major breakdown in communication. Texting, Facebook, and other social networking – although they have their great benefits – have bred a culture of social decline. For proof, next time you’re at a party or business function, look around the room and note how many people are buried in electronic devices.

Regarding dating, frankly, if people can’t stay off their devices for an hour or two, that’s a problem. Of course there are extenuating circumstances that might warrant responding to a text on a date. For instance, if one is on-call for their job or expecting an important call or message. But, by-and-large, out of respect to others, people should adhere to the rule that’s been around for years: never take calls during dinner. If that isn’t possible, then the person should ask to be excused, explaining that it is an important text or call. Another strategy is to keep the phone on vibrate or silent so as not to disturb the date, then when using the rest room check messages.

As for how you can respond to such a situation, if it’s a first or second date, consider this behavior an enlightening moment as you get to know the person. Clearly you have different social etiquette values that could prove problematic. If though it’s someone you’ve gotten to know and like, then let them know you enjoy their company, acknowledge that they’re busy with calls, and suggest meeting another time. This subtle yet direct approach should be an obvious wake-up call.

Jonathan Alpert is a licensed psychotherapist. Find him on Facebook and Twitter, and look for his new book, "BE FEARLESS: Change Your Life in 28 Days," this April.